A friend recently sent me the photo to the left.
Since blonde is only my chosen but not natural hair color at the moment, I did not take offense.
Even in the days when blonde really was my natural hair color, I would have found it funny… in an absurd kind of way… Just the way it was intended.
I was reminded of an old comedy bit. I no longer can remember who performed the vaudeville-like routine; probably a Dick Van Dyke or a Donald O’Connor
(yup – I know I am dating myself a bit)
In the routine, a drunk runs into a lamppost, stumbles around for a bit and walks into it again, and again, and again. In the end, defeated, having walked into a lamppost from every direction, he declares himself surrounded…by a single lamppost.
I was listening to the radio yesterday, though, and heard the report that a family had gotten lost in a corn maze. Looking at photos online, I did confirm that the maze was significantly more complex than the one in the picture. It truly was a maze in which one might find oneself lost, but is that really newsworthy?
Well, yes. It became news when the family called 911.
Seriously.
I get that they had children with them. I get that the sun was setting, and the operators had shut down the maze for the night (they had not yet left them premises). I get that frustration had probably gotten the better of them.
I must ask, though, how, exactly, did it become local law enforcement’s job to teach them to walk through the corn to the road and back to their car? It was a wall of corn, not 12 inches of armor-plate.
In a broader sense, I have to ask, how, in general, we have determined that if we get into something and can’t get out, that it is someone else’s job to fix our mess? How do start something without a back-up plan? How do we go straight to municipal emergency services?
Why not call a family member or friend to come honk their horn in the parking lot? Heaven help us if we actually should owe a favor back in return. Better to just use taxpayer money.
Why not call the maze operators? Surely they have a vested interest in the plight of the lost. Oops, I forgot; 411 is a toll call. No reason to invest the $1.50 of our own money.
While I have given up worrying that our GPS, MapQuest generation no longer could find north if their lives depended on it, it does seem that even the most citified, device-dependent among us, ought to be able to follow a street light.
It seems I am wrong.
Instead it seems that, even without consumption of mind-altering substances, we are becoming as impaired as the drunk surrounded by a single lamppost; the blonde stuck in a simple maze.
So…even though the topic for today is mazes, I think that, rather than “How do we get out?”, the more important question is “How did we get here?”

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October 16, 2011 at 12:33 PM
Pamela Klainer
I saw the news article myself about the family who had become lost in the maze, panicked, and called 911. My reaction wasn’t quite as strong as yours, although I did wonder. The story brought to mind a time when my kids were toddlers, and my mother was in Rochester and caring for them for a few hours while I went in to work. She locked herself out of the house while taking them for a walk and immediately called 911. As I recall it was a warm, sunny day – not a blizzard. She also called me, and I got there in time to head off the police visit. I tried to explain to her that Rochester is a city with actual crimes, and they don’t really have the capacity to respond to locked out grannies. She was incensed.
Some of us look for solutions, and some of us look for rescue. The question is how we get more of group #2 into group #1.
October 16, 2011 at 5:39 PM
Ellen
That really is an excellent question. It seems to me that the migration has been to group #2…maybe I’m not looking in the right direction…
October 16, 2011 at 12:36 PM
MKN
Ellen, completely agree with you ! Can you imagine the prioritizing for the police operators – hmmmmm, “stuck in corn maze” – “house on fire / domestic violence call”…………..as crazy – WHO brings an infant to a place like that? These folks, obviously. Probably the same ones who bring the crying infant to the movie & stay thru the crying…………………God help us !
NO forethought – no plan, like you say. How about 1-parent stays outside w/ kiddo ? Geesh. Amusing in a bizarre way. I think nonsense 911 calls should come with a fee.
October 16, 2011 at 5:40 PM
Ellen
We’d need to start with a training program defining “nonsence” calls, I suppose. I’m sure you see plenty of this in the hospital.
October 16, 2011 at 2:04 PM
rokalily
I hope I never make the news for “blonde” stupidity. While LA has its detractors, it is easy to find your way around and everything is marked so it makes sense. Unlike Ithaca,which was a total mess. Heard I missed an interesting reunion at Mercy last night.
Take care.
October 16, 2011 at 5:43 PM
Ellen
Truthfully we all have our “blond moments” – the question is how much assistance do we need to recover.
I totally missed out on reunion. Never even heard about it – and you did (despite a 3000 mile disadvantage) – pretty pathetic.
October 16, 2011 at 6:05 PM
rokalily
No worries. Heard about it from a FB friend. I hear we did not miss much. When I get back to Rochester for a visit, I’m hoping to touch base w/ some of the Mercy girls. I’ll let you know. Have a good evening.
October 16, 2011 at 7:37 PM
Curt
We are no longer citizens, just consumers. Citizens help themselves and others. Consumers just want it now.
October 17, 2011 at 1:26 AM
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October 17, 2011 at 8:55 PM
j
Now I know who will come help when I get lost in a maze, Ellen and Pam better answer!!!!!. =) Very few these days take the time to think ahead about consequences, that said, not many think “gee I may get stuck in the maze ’cause I am too stupid to get out” before they enter. HMMMMM…..
October 18, 2011 at 8:34 AM
Ellen
I’ll be there!!